He smiled and said, “I will text you”.ĭuring the first 2 weeks in India, we chatted and did some sexting, until problems arose again. So I told him to text me if he’s still interested in dating me, and because I am not able to be attracted to 2 people at the same time, I don’t think I will change my mind after he’s gone. He wants to see where things go with me”. To which he answered, “The casual thing is just a period, not the whole thing. Thus, I asked him if a casual relationship was all that he ever wanted with me. I had a define-the-relationship conversation again he told me not to wait until he was in India. That’s when I decided to end things (before I liked him more) but before I got to say anything, he texted me a few days later asking about my day, giving attention, like nothing major happened between us. I thought he liked me (at some amount at least), but that sentence told me that he didn’t care if I stayed or not. I thought he would reply with some joke expressing his affection towards me, but to my surprise, he said “You don’t have to wait for me. I lightly expressed my confusion by jokingly said, “Why made me like you in the first place if you’re just going to leave me alone on Halloween and then off to India for 1 month lol”. Needless to say, that was a recipe for failure.Īfter 3 weeks of hanging out (in his apartment, watching tv, eating dinner and having sex), I was feeling lonely when this guy I’ve been sleeping with still felt so estranged. In the end, I compromised that we would keep things casual in order to get to know each other better before we move on to a committed relationship (because this is what I want). To be clear, CASUAL to us here means that we just have fun with each other while still being free to see someone else (his definition, I went along). Let’s do things casually first and see” whereas I said, “I don’t want to do casual because I tried in the past and I can’t be casual”. On our first date, he expressed, “I am not ready to jump into a relationship yet. I met this guy on Bumble, and I am attracted to him (maybe not at first).
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